My son one day in england cooked something . It was really delicious with a beautiful flavour that i did not recognise but smelled familiar . After we finished dinner i asked him what spice he used . He said that he had used Hing . I said to him , in my narrowminded stupidity , " what ? We dont eat hing only kashmiri pandits eat it ". And he in his direct straight manner with a peculiar glint in his eye said " so you guys have divided the spices as well " ....... All i could do was feel ashamed and silly ...........